Spiritual Enlightment Question

Hi Jordan,

I have been doing a lot of reading in search of Spiritual Enlightenment, just as you suggested. Of course I have come across an abundance of information. I was wondering what you thought about Breathwork. I came across an article that talked about shining the light on/and embracing your shadow. To my understanding my shadow is my inner self that is hidden from my awareness. If this is correct, I definitely need to release these energies that are holding me back. The part of the article that spoke to me the most was regarding relationships. It was at this time that I felt that I was never truly loved in any of my romantic relationships. Then I instantly felt that I possibly subconsciously chose these partners, because my father was never in my life. I have never really felt the love of a father. I had a step-father, but he wasn't the loving, affectionate kind. He was a provider. My mothers father died when I was four, and I find myself holding on to those few memories of him very tightly. 

I have also been meditating regularly, and I see a very bright white light during that time. I even opened my eyes a couple of times to see if there was a light shining from somewhere :-). That's a really good feeling, and I would like to keep my light shining all day long. I had even called the women in my family together to meet and strengthen our bonds, motivate, and inspire each other. Tears were shed as we learned about each others low self esteem, addictions, and goals. We will continue to meet monthly to help one another stay on track of goals, heal, vent, and whatever else is needed. That's why my healing is so important. I want to be able to help others, and utilize my intuition to identify their needs. There are so many people around me in pain. What are your thoughts on this? 

Hello Jesia,

It is nice to hear from you and though counselling is  typically not focused on specific energy methods, such as Breathwork, an exception may be in order.

As the website will mention, energy exists all around us and the yin-yang of our existence creates a balance between negative and positive energy.  Each of us experience negative and positive energy not only within, but in our current environment.  When one evolves, opportunities to learn and grow in many places, and the purpose of spiritual growth is to continue to learn how to harness the power of the light - within, in order to strengthen the light and minimize the darkness.

Do you find that meditation and breathwork are enhancing your spirituality and the connection you feel with your soul?  Does it help you in challenging situations, whether these situations be internal or external?  It is wonderful to experience and learn new ways to connect to yourself and if it helps your spiritual evolution, why not continue exploring this new territory and see where it takes you!

It is wonderful to hear you and your close knit circle of woman are uniting and strengthening your bond!  That is terrific and a wonderful way of harnessing the light within all of your souls.  The website says over and over,  you only evolve from your relationships. 

It is no doubt difficult for a woman to not have a father in her life and creates unique challenges that females must overcome.  Though it is common for romantic relationships to be more challenging for woman who didn't have her father in her life, that by no means excludes you or any other woman raised by a single mother from experiencing the most amazing soul mate relationship.  In fact, it may prove the exact opposite.  Often, when one works to overcome a challenge felt internally, effort and awareness is emphasized and with that effort comes endless opportunities to harness the light and create the exact opposite of what is feared or believe to be impossible. 

The past is the past and if you thought of each of your past relationships, is there one or two important lessons or self realizations that you gained?  What are the traits in each of those man that you admired?  What were the ones you just couldn't accept?  Reflection on certain aspects of your relationships may help you build the ideal soul mate for your future.  Of course, the most important part of finding a soul mate in any situation, is healing and preparing one's own soul.  Have you read the pages on How to Find a Soul mate?  You may find these three articles helpful to you in regards to relationships. 

Your soul is bright and has endless possibilities.  Keep up the good work and you may just turn around one day and realize your spiritual enlightenment led to a growth that opened doors to a future at one time you never thought possible.  Be the light, attract the light and always remember the only limitations that exist for us in this lifetime are the ones we create for ourselves. 

Love and Light,

Jordan Canon

Spiritual Advisor

Free-Spiritual-Guidance.com

Virgo Tips for Finding a Soul Mate

Hi Jordan, 

I came to the site seeking guidance in an up and down relationship that I've been in the last 4 years. Unfortunately, I don't really have anyone in my life that I feel comfortable talking to about it. We met in high school and are both 20 now, soon to be 21. She is a Libra 

We've had more than our share of fights. In fact it seems like we're always arguing with each other about something. We've nearly broken up on a number of occasions. She's gained a significant amount of weight since we started dating (and hasn't really shown interest in changing), has become increasingly insecure, clingy and childish. I've felt hesitant about our relationship from day one, but we hit it off and started dating and I fell in love. However, I've always been a skeptical person. I'm still not sure what being in love actually is, if I'm truly in love, if my being skeptical is a good enough reason for breaking up, etc, etc. In any case, I came across your site and decided to follow the guide on creating your soulmate. I'm not sure if I want that to be who I'm with now or someone else. If it is to be someone else, I'm afraid I don't have the guts to end the current relationship. Anyway, I came up with my list of traits in a soulmate. It's pretty long and some are a little "shallow," but I was told to be specific lol. 


Also, I wanted to mention that I have been consistently working on myself, though I know I could do more. (I lost 30 pounds in the last 6 months, have been studying my interests diligently, keeping well groomed, being more positive, etc). 

Interesting sense of humor; dry, quirky, a little dirty or silly 
Adventurous 
Loves to laugh 
Doesn’t take herself too seriously 
Accepting 
Full of joy 
Loving 
Supportive 
Understanding 
A little edgy 
Easy to please 
Loves to make me happy 
A little kinky 
Fit 
Stays fit and healthy, but doesn’t take it too seriously 
Petite frame but a little above average height, maybe 5’ 6” or 5’ 7” 
Loyal 
wants a few kids, more than 1, less than 6 
Loves old video games 
Loves 90’s music 
Loves card games 
Loves board games 
Great listener 
Wonderful at having conversations 
Not demanding 
Not clingy, but doesn’t push me away; just wants to be with me, but doesn’t complain when we’re not together as if it’s my fault 
Loves animals, but not an animal rights activist 
Has an amazing ability to keep me calm 
Patient 
Very secure with herself 
Loves to read 
Loves action movies, dramas and comedies, especially the ones I like 
Has an interest in computers 
Loves to talk about my interests 
Loves to listen to me talk about my interests 
Medium sized, perky breasts. Seemingly the perfect size and shape for her frame. 
Thigh gap of about 2” 
Slender legs, knees and feet 
Slender face, but not with overly pronounced features. A soft looking face, easy on the eyes 
A soft, loving voice 
Encouraging 
Looks just as pretty without makeup on and she likes that 
Knows how to put make up on so she looks stunning 
Straightforward and honest 
Not overly critical 
Clean and neat 
Independent 
No baggage 
Young at heart, but knows when to get serious 
Not overly cutesy or childish 
Emotionally secure 
Athletic 
Intelligent 
Enjoys political discussions from time to time 
Extremely attractive 
Can have children 
Doesn't have any known or unknown serious health issues or risks 
Has a kind and loving family without a history of abuse 
Emotionally supportive of me 
Wants to travel, see the world 
Non obsessive 
Isn’t absorbed in phone, social networks or the like 

Thank you for offering your guidance. I hope to hear back soon. 

Hello Jonathon,

  

Relationships are the strongest way for a person's soul to evolve.  In relationships, there are countless opportunities for one to look within himself or herself and identify areas to work on in order to harness the power of the light.  Most think improving relationships is about improving the people around him or her, and don't realize that instead of focusing on others, redirecting the focus to himself or herself is a more powerful way of evolution.

First, lets start with your current relationship.   Do you feel there are any areas of the relationship that you could improve upon?  If the roles were reversed in your current relationship, would you be satisfied with the energy and emotion your girlfriend displays?  Judgment of others is easy to do and is actually a form of temptation. 

You may want to read the page on the seven virtues and seven deadly sins.  These pages are a great start to learning about how to harness the light, instead of temptation in each thought and action.  Is the energy one holds onto positive, or negative?   Often, people forget the type of energy he or she has within his or her soul affects relationships.

Now, getting to your list on your ideal soul mate... It is clear you spent a lot of time thinking of what it is that you want.  Now if you were to pick the top 10 characteristics from the list below, what would they be?   Now the question is, are you the ideal soul mate for the person you described below?  If you would bump into your soul mate today, would you fit her "dream guy" status or is there any area about yourself that needs fine-tuning.  Part 3 of the "How to Find Your Soul Mate" is actually the most important step in finding that perfect person.  It is the investment of energy in your own soul.

Love and Light,

Jordan Canon

Spiritual Advisor

Free-Spiritual-Guidance.com

Am I Wasting my Time in my Relationship?

Hello Jordan, 

I have received your report. Thank you so much for redoing it. I did notice some significant changes from the last report. However, they don't seem to make the situation any better. This week has been really turbulent for us. Why can't we seem to communicate effectively about anything? We have misunderstandings about the slightest thing almost daily. We are on the verge of breaking up at least once per month. In the heat of an argument he will blurt out how we need to move on from one another. When I agree with him he turns into a ball of emotions, and tells me how much he loves me and I am his world. This is indeed the strangest relationship that I have ever had. Do you see any mental illness in his chart? Am I wasting my time with him?

Marie, Virgo

Good morning Marie,

There are hundreds of souls around the world who submit spiritual counseling questions every day. I answer these in the order they come in. Out of fairness, and as my time permits. I normally don’t reply to emails with questions. In the future you are welcome to submit Spiritual Counseling questions from the link provided. However, I will offer some guidance and a thought for you to consider.

I also do not provide spiritual advice that tells people what to do. Like the universe intended, the gift of free will and the decisions you have and will make, will have a direct effect on the evolution of your soul.

I sense you may have much to still read on the website, especially the pages relating to finding a soul mate, your spiritual astrology reading is intended to help advance the teaching on the website. It certainly will have more value to you once you grasp some of the basic concepts of the website.

But regarding your relationship, and let’s totally take anything you would associate with blame or shortcomings on his part out of the equation (because you can only evolve your own soul) I’d like you to consider this thought:

If you were able to fill out a long and detailed wish list of your perfect soul mate and how your relationship would be today, would the relationship you are in live up to those desires?

If you think the answer might be “No, this is not the relationship I would wish for, even with the understanding that all relationships have ups and downs (spiritually known as yins and yang’s)  then you have some spiritual growth and work to do.

I hope you can see by the number of links I have shared so far, that you may much reading to do. These is no reason to answer your question now. Just reading a spiritual astrology reading on relationship compatibility will not contain your answers. The answers are within your soul, these links and tools are provided to help you make a connection to your soul and harness this energy. If you read just the pages I listed, you may be able to see your question from a different prospective.

The Virgo’s primary power is “I analyze,” which is your gift from the universe. No other sign does it better than you. I hope you can harness some of that energy to define the direction you wish to evolve your soul, as you can only evolve through your relationships.  

I hope that gets you started on a new spiritual journey.

Love and light,

Jordan Canon

www.free-spiritual-guidance.com

Virgo and Pisces Compatibility

A Pisces relationship with Virgo always brings a harmonious equilibrium. Pisces find its easy to communicate and get along with Virgo, which works to their advantage every time they want something done.  Although they have their set differences, Pisces never finds it hard to adapt and adjust to Virgo. Like Pisces, they are loving, compassionate and understanding. If they both learn from each other and compromise, their relationship would practically be a match made in heaven.

There is a lot to admire and much to learn from one another. Virgo is highly intellectual; they can teach Pisces analytical ways to solve problems and reach their ambitious dreams. Pisces, on the other hand, can encourage calmness as Virgo can be too rigid and nitpick about everything.

Likewise, Pisces has a deep appreciation of how Virgo can understand their emotional needs. When Pisces feels insecure and demands time from Virgo, they are always ready to give in to what their Pisces partner wants. Virgos are never afraid to stay unruffled when Pisces has their tantrums or mood swings. At the same time, Virgo can fuel Pisces need for adventure, growth, and imagination. Like Pisces, they bring creativity and security to the relationship.
Advantages of Virgo and Pisces Relationship

There are so many common attributes that the two signs share that is advantageous to their relationship. Virgo is the most focused person; and once they set their eyes on the prize, they will work for it and do everything to achieve it. They love solving problems and going through every detail. They love quality over quantity, and always make sure everything is in order and organized.

Because of these attributes, Virgo can be Pisces' perfect motivator. In times when Pisces becomes laid back and complacent, Virgo can mandate them to get back on their feet. Virgos are so full of energy and never tire when it comes to caring for their Pisces partner; always giving them the treatment they deserve.

Lastly, Virgo does not mind if Pisces becomes too clingy or expressive. They are gentle, tolerant, and understanding. In times when Pisces can be stubborn and demanding, Virgo still comes to their rescue, to the extent that they can forget themselves in order to only please their Pisces mate. The relationship Pisces has with Virgo is full of compassion and devotion; one that is worth keeping despite their fixed set of differences.

Disadvantages of Virgo and Pisces Relationship

There are just a few factors that can put clashes and tremors into the relationship between a Pisces and Virgo. One factor is the need Virgo has  to be obsessive compulsive. They are so focused on making things correct and perfect that it can sometimes suffocate Pisces, disrupting their nature to love frenzy and chaos.

Likewise, Virgo tries to fix everything. They are so intuitive, analytical, and have a strong desire to be on top. They have a wider view of life than Pisces, which makes them more authoritative and dominating. And when it comes to making decisions, they prefer to follow their own ideas and decisions rather than coinciding with anyone, even with their Pisces partner.

Lastly, despite Virgo's compassion, they can at times become cold and insensitive. When they speak their mind, there is no one stopping them. They can also be too prejudiced, always jumping into conclusions. The worst thing is, though, is that they always expect everyone around them to live up to their standards. Your Daily Virgo Horoscopes will point out these traits so you can find ways to overcome them.

Don'ts with a Virgo and Pisces Relationship
When Pisces and Virgo come together in a relationship, it is full of fulfillment and joy.  Both signs are accepting and sympathetic. They are bonded with their idealism and respect for each other. However, there are few things they have to consider if they want to make the relationship better.

For instance, Virgo's fixed mind-set to be always right should never be tolerated. Pisces even with their gullible attitude should not allow Virgo to dominate and manipulate them. Instead, they must learn to stand on their own and express what they want.

On the other hand, Virgo should not come on too strong and cold for their Pisces, especially when Pisces can be overly sensitive and emotional themselves. They must learn how to open themselves up and adapt to how Pisces would want to be treated. Reconciliation and patience are what both signs should invest in for this relationship to work.

What The Relationship Needs

As you will learn in your Daily Virgo Love Horoscope, the relationship with Pisces and Virgo generally makes a great partnership. Though we are complete opposites, but we can do communicate and do well together. What this relationship needs is constant understanding and appreciation from both sides.

Pisces must learn how to go out of their way for their Virgo, and Virgo must give their Pisces some leeway. Virgo should not become too tight and rigid; rather they should learn how to stimulate Pisces creativity and imagination. They must play the role of the ever-supportive partner, never introducing limits or suppressing their Pisces in the things they want to achieve.

This relationship needs constant reaffirmation of security and friendship. Security and stability are very important for Pisces. They need to feel that they are well-loved and appreciated. If they don't find this from their cold and insensitive Virgo, they will tend to get tired in no time. Likewise, if Virgo does not see a potential best friend in their lover, one that they can easily get along with, share their minds with, and explore and grow, then this relationship has no future. If both learn each other's ways and evolve, then this relationship is not far from being ideal.

Jordan Canon
Spiritual Advisor
Free-Spiritual-Guidance.com

Virgo and Aquarius Compatibility

Having a relationship with a Virgo always brings an Aquarian an exciting feeling because they bring out the best and worst in each other. Virgo is sensible, logical, and practical, while Aquarius can be enthusiastic, patient, and sensitive. With a little push from Virgo, the things that Aquarians may have a hard time materializing can be simple and magical with their help. They can introduce organization and discipline, while Aquarius can teach them that it is okay to reach for their dreams, even if they make mistakes along the way.

Virgo is passionate, level headed, and achievers. This is one thing that Aquarius admire about them, one that has an extreme drive for life. They are not only visionaries, they are natural leaders. They are great communicators and, just like Aquarius, they are more geared towards their logical side.

Likewise, Aquarians always admire how Virgo thinks. They are very practical, and focus more on the "how" and "why" of things. And though they may sometimes have little arguments, Aquarians always come half way and compromise. There is more to Virgo that Aquarians find fondness with and probably less that they disapprove of, which makes their relationship more promising.

Advantages of Virgo and Aquarius Relationship

The relationship Aquarius has with Virgo is full of enlightenment and contentment. Both have the same interests in life and have the same qualities. Just like the Aquarius, Virgo is also a social butterfly. Friendship means so much to both, and both signs are loyal, generous, and kind.

Though, Virgo can fall short with their discriminating and perfectionist attitude, Aquarians still appreciate how Virgo can give them direction and purpose. They are appreciative and sensitive, but not clingy and bossy. Virgo also has this fastidious attitude to be overly meticulous on little things; even to the ones Aquarians do not mind.

Another factor in play that makes their compatibility positive is the way they both think. Their minds have the same rhythm and wave length. Both can cover many topics, and they almost have the same perspective and outlooks on things. Virgo is more on the logical side, and they don't base their decisions on emotions. You will learn more about this when you read your Daily Horoscopes for Virgo. However, Virgo always sticks to what was tried and tested for most of their solutions, one thing that Aquarius may oppose to much of the time.

Disadvantages of Virgo and Aquarius Relationship

No matter how close Aquarians think they are to Virgo, a Virgo always has flaws and mishaps that face them, which makes the Aquarian think twice. Virgo has a natural drive for perfection. They always make sure that they put their best foot forward in everything they do. And if they make any mistake, they have hard time forgiving themselves, but will do everything to rectify themselves. Aquarians can clash when Virgo interferes with their decisions and judgement.

Also, Virgos are fault-finders. They always have high standards, and it can be irritating to the Aquarian to have someone jolt at them all the time, even with the smallest things they do. As free-spirited as Aquarians are, they want to be left alone and have no one interfere with the things they do, especially with their decisions.

Likewise, Virgo has this obsession to always be the boss. Though, they are not demanding, they can strangle you if you bend backwards from their orders. And just as much as Aquarius wanted to please and admire them, they can only do so much. They may need to stay away and sulk in their emotions.

Don'ts With a Virgo and Aquarius Relationship

Virgo and Aquarius can be considered a love-hate relationship. They have many similarities as well as differences. As you read your Daily Virgo Love Horoscope, you will discover that it is important that both learn to compromise and understand each other. Virgo must not tolerate their attitude of being too bossy and insensitive. If they continue to be arrogant, it can be the grounds for the end of their relationship.

Likewise, Aquarius must not distance themselves from their Virgo, especially if things might seem tough and tight when Virgo can be intervening. Instead, they must learn how to open up their feelings as Virgo is also open-minded.

And if things deepen between the two, it is healthy if they go beyond the superficial level. Both do not like to invest much on their feelings. They would rather keep what is inside them, rather than become vulnerable to their partners. If both do not learn how to open up, their relationship will never prosper.

What The Relationship Needs

This relationship needs more than understanding and compromise. Both signs have strong personalities that need respect from both sides. If both work together for their benefits, things will be much easier. They just need to set aside their differences and work on what binds them together, such as their love for adventure, their quick and witty thinking, and their drive for their ambitions and dreams in life.

If both see beyond each other's mistakes and flaws, and look on the positivity of each other, this relationship is for keeps.  They need to appreciate and push each other to be the best person they can be. For this relationship to work, they must enjoy the shared moment and learn to adapt to each other's mishaps.

Jordan Canon
Spiritual Advisor
Free-Spiritual-Guidance.com

How to Use Your Daily Virgo Horoscope

Virgo comes from the 6th sign in the zodiac and is ruled by the earth sign. It is the only sign that is represented by a woman; and just like their symbol, Virgos are practical, fragile, industrious, reliable, and romantic.

Likewise, Virgos are very intelligent and give great attention to detail. They have a strong sense of responsibility and are very organized. Though, they may not be neat and tidy all the time, you can bet that Virgos know their way around the mess and chaos in their house or office. They also make sure they always put their best foot forward. Once involved in a project, they will not stop until they have given it their all and made sure the outcome is par excellence.

However, Virgos can be sensitive. They do not take criticism lightly. Even if they did not show they are hurting, your criticism can pierce them for days and even longer. They can also be hot-tempered, especially if they are not respected, given enough time, or if their efforts are disregarded.

To know more about yourself, you can get your Virgo personality reading. It can provide you with a 360-degree overview of the things that you may not understand or are trying to learn about yourself. It can also be a great tool for self-awareness and self-actualization. Paired with their Virgo Daily Horoscope, this can be a powerful tool for life.

Virgo Relationship Compatibility Reading

Virgo may have different love chemistries with the various zodiac signs. Your Virgo relationship compatibility reading can help you find a deeper meaning to your current love relationships, help you understand the indifference and similarities between the other zodiacs, and guide you as to how to improve your current relationships. The best zodiac matches for Virgos are with Taurus, Capricorn, and Scorpio. The relationships they may have difficulty with are Gemini and Pisces.

Virgo and Taurus are a love match bonded in practicality and sincerity. Taurus has a strong sense of hold when it comes to money matters and Virgo knows their way around in life. They are both efficient in problem-solving, patient, and hardworking. Virgo is attracted to Taurus' determination and passion, while Taurus admires Virgo's wit and optimism.

Virgo and Capricorn is a love match centered in respect and mutual understanding. Both signs are rational and have a high sense of need for security, especially regarding emotional impulse. They approach life with determination, energy, and positivity. Virgos can adapt to Capricorns strive for perfection, while Capricorn is attracted to Virgo's strong projection of practicality.

The Virgo and Scorpio pairing is a relationship that can hold strong amidst many difficulties and trials. Both share an intense passion for commitment and loyalty. Despite their differences, they learn how to compromise and understand each other. Scorpio may be timid and shy, but they can show Virgo a more adventurous and serene world. Virgo, on the other hand, can show their Scorpio how to be intense and organized while securing their emotional needs.

Virgo and Gemini may have issues with commitment. Gemini, as the twin, can be overly powerful for a Virgo. They may overtire their Virgo because of their split personality and many emotional demands. Likewise, Virgo can seek commitment from a wild spirited and carefree Gemini, which they may not be able to give over time.

Virgo and Pisces come from two different worlds. Virgo has a strong personality, while Pisces has low self-esteem. Virgo looks for a deeper commitment, and Pisces can be lazy to show that they are worth the time and effort. This match may require more than luck for it work out.

How to Customize Your Daily Virgo Horoscope

The universe is in constant communication with us all. Think of it as the master controller of your computer with the sole purpose of following what its user solely desires. It creates an environment and a chain reaction based on how we think, act, and behave in the world we live in. The more we learn how to communicate with the universe, the more we are able to send a concrete message of how we want the universe to create that environment for us.

Communicating with the universe is easy with the help of your daily Virgo horoscope. All you have to do is to visit it daily, and make sure you read your horoscope thoroughly and deeply. Then, cut and paste the portion you want to customize into some type of word or text document. See an example below with the customized version inside the quotation marks:

Above all, have a strong desire for harmony "and equality" in your personal "and social" relationships.  Go ahead and enjoy the company of your friends and family, "and engage in more social activities." Emotionally, refrain from the demanding love "and time" from others. "Be contented and satisfied." Have value for peace, "both in your domestic and social life." You can, on occasion, be superficial with your feelings "and reckless, so you have to be mindful and have time to think them over."

Through this exercise, you will be aware of how you are as a person, and the behavior and the mindset you want to change in life. Through this simple self-actualization, you communicate with the universe about the things you need help and guidance from. Doing this everyday can bring you a healthy relationship with yourself and with the universe.

Jordan Canon
Spiritual Advisor
Free-Spiritual-Guidance.com

Virgo Relationship Tips

Virgo is governed by the Sun and the Moon. They are modest in love. They don't think too highly of themselves, and often back-off when they try to pursue someone. They need a lot of encouragement and careful planning in order to actually go for what they want.

Virgos are the ideal lovers. They are the rarest of the zodiac signs that can actually give unconditional love. Once they find the perfect one for them, they will do everything to make that relationship last and their partners happy.

They are routine people and when the call for change arises, they can be pessimistic. They have the tendency to be impulsive with their decisions, making their relationship move at a fast rate all the time. They are reserved at first, but eventually they can be expressive and sensual.

They build their relationship in trust and perfection. They want things to always be in order and be improved, including their loved ones. They continually have this perception of a perfect relationship, so they tend to be the person their lovers want them to be.

Virgo Relationship Resources

• Daily Virgo Horoscope
• Free Virgo Astrology Reading
• Free Virgo Compatibility Reading

Positive Traits Of Virgo Lover

Virgo lovers are the most helpful. They are reliable and the first to help their partner in need. They want their loved ones to be fulfilled and satisfied in life. Virgos are ambitions, both in love and in life. They use their intelligence to get what they want.

They are calm and always analytic in problem solving. They may be impulsive with their decisions, but you can be sure they are probably doing the right thing. When in a heated argument, they will simply stay away and come back when things are cooled off. However, be assured they have all the possible solutions laid out.

Negative Traits of Virgo Lover

Virgos are melodramatic. They have the tendency to tier themselves without even moving. Over thinking is their downside. In turn, they can exaggerate things that they don't feel is right. Their sensitivity eats up all their emotions. They can show their temperament on a constant basis, making members of the opposite sex back off. They can bring both chaos and order, depending on their mood and way of thinking.

Virgos seemed to be detached and uncaring most of the time, but that is only on the exterior. The truth is, they are very observant and sensitive to everything. They easily get hurt, but won't show it. They want to be appreciated all the time. Virgos are also ambitious and will do everything to the extreme just to get what they want. This can lead to their success or to their destruction, depending on the ways they want to tackle the road of their dreams.

How To Attract A Virgo

You have to be highly intellectual to be able to attract a Virgo. They love lively conversations that have depth and meaning. They like to connect themselves with people who are fun to be with and are confident in themselves. Truthfulness is very important. They don't like fake people. Show the real you and your Virgo will naturally be drawn to you.

Virgo like to be in control and love their freedom. Let them explore, be who they want to be, and encourage them to do the things they want, and it won't take much time for them to be completely enamored with you. Virgos also love a good listener. This is what they want in any companion. Always take an interest in whatever they do and learn how to appreciate them. Someone who can stimulate their mind and are reliable 24/7 to all their worries is the first to win their heart.

Don'ts With A Virgo

Do not ever overpower a Virgo, they will never forgive you. They love their freedom and will only submit to the person they trust the most. If you want things done, you have to convince them in a nice way. Lead them to think that it was their idea, not yours. This would be a better road to controlling a Virgo.

Never attempt to betray a Virgo. They are intelligent and have a keen observation to everything. They are great detectives. They can spy on you for the rest of your life, just to prove to themselves that you are not doing anything wrong.

Virgos are naturally shy people. However, when they hold your heart, they will show the world how much they love you. When they are comfortable enough to show their love, don't ever neglect those emotions or their rare showcase of love. Remember, they can get hurt easily.

Lastly, never push them to the limits. You won't like them when they are mad. The will hold onto the things they find most important, and if you disrespect or cross that line, they will be your worst enemy.

What Virgo Needs From Their Relationship

Virgos need a relationship centered in perfection and true love. They have this wild idea of romance, and will do everything to make those fairytales come true. They can love just one person for the rest of their lives and would not even dare to think of cheating.

They need someone who can understand the real them. A person who is willing to go for the things they want, the ideas they have in mind, and the dreams they have for the future. They need someone who knows how to appreciate their every work, whether it be little or big. This for them, is a big gesture of love.

They long for a relationship built on trust. They love to start all of their relationships with friendship and build them through time. They are very observant and want to be sure that the person they end up giving their heart to is the right one. They don't like making mistakes, so expect to be scrutinized all the time, just to achieve their idea of a perfect relationship. In the nutshell, it is not hard to love a Virgo much less to be loved by them.

Jordan Canon
Spiritual Advisor
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