Thursday, May 23, 2013

Virgo and Aquarius Compatibility

Virgo and Aquarius Compatibility
Having a relationship with a Virgo always brings an Aquarian an exciting feeling because they bring out the best and worst in each other. Virgo is sensible, logical, and practical, while Aquarius can be enthusiastic, patient, and sensitive. With a little push from Virgo, the things that Aquarians may have a hard time materializing can be simple and magical with their help. They can introduce organization and discipline, while Aquarius can teach them that it is okay to reach for their dreams, even if they make mistakes along the way.

Virgo is passionate, level headed, and achievers. This is one thing that Aquarius admire about them, one that has an extreme drive for life. They are not only visionaries, they are natural leaders. They are great communicators and, just like Aquarius, they are more geared towards their logical side.

Likewise, Aquarians always admire how Virgo thinks. They are very practical, and focus more on the "how" and "why" of things. And though they may sometimes have little arguments, Aquarians always come half way and compromise. There is more to Virgo that Aquarians find fondness with and probably less that they disapprove of, which makes their relationship more promising.

Advantages of Virgo and Aquarius Relationship

The relationship Aquarius has with Virgo is full of enlightenment and contentment. Both have the same interests in life and have the same qualities. Just like the Aquarius, Virgo is also a social butterfly. Friendship means so much to both, and both signs are loyal, generous, and kind.

Though, Virgo can fall short with their discriminating and perfectionist attitude, Aquarians still appreciate how Virgo can give them direction and purpose. They are appreciative and sensitive, but not clingy and bossy. Virgo also has this fastidious attitude to be overly meticulous on little things; even to the ones Aquarians do not mind.

Another factor in play that makes their compatibility positive is the way they both think. Their minds have the same rhythm and wave length. Both can cover many topics, and they almost have the same perspective and outlooks on things. Virgo is more on the logical side, and they don't base their decisions on emotions. You will learn more about this when you read your Daily Horoscopes for Virgo. However, Virgo always sticks to what was tried and tested for most of their solutions, one thing that Aquarius may oppose to much of the time.

Disadvantages of Virgo and Aquarius Relationship

No matter how close Aquarians think they are to Virgo, a Virgo always has flaws and mishaps that face them, which makes the Aquarian think twice. Virgo has a natural drive for perfection. They always make sure that they put their best foot forward in everything they do. And if they make any mistake, they have hard time forgiving themselves, but will do everything to rectify themselves. Aquarians can clash when Virgo interferes with their decisions and judgement.

Also, Virgos are fault-finders. They always have high standards, and it can be irritating to the Aquarian to have someone jolt at them all the time, even with the smallest things they do. As free-spirited as Aquarians are, they want to be left alone and have no one interfere with the things they do, especially with their decisions.

Likewise, Virgo has this obsession to always be the boss. Though, they are not demanding, they can strangle you if you bend backwards from their orders. And just as much as Aquarius wanted to please and admire them, they can only do so much. They may need to stay away and sulk in their emotions.

Don'ts With a Virgo and Aquarius Relationship

Virgo and Aquarius can be considered a love-hate relationship. They have many similarities as well as differences. As you read your Daily Virgo Love Horoscope, you will discover that it is important that both learn to compromise and understand each other. Virgo must not tolerate their attitude of being too bossy and insensitive. If they continue to be arrogant, it can be the grounds for the end of their relationship.

Likewise, Aquarius must not distance themselves from their Virgo, especially if things might seem tough and tight when Virgo can be intervening. Instead, they must learn how to open up their feelings as Virgo is also open-minded.

And if things deepen between the two, it is healthy if they go beyond the superficial level. Both do not like to invest much on their feelings. They would rather keep what is inside them, rather than become vulnerable to their partners. If both do not learn how to open up, their relationship will never prosper.

What The Relationship Needs

This relationship needs more than understanding and compromise. Both signs have strong personalities that need respect from both sides. If both work together for their benefits, things will be much easier. They just need to set aside their differences and work on what binds them together, such as their love for adventure, their quick and witty thinking, and their drive for their ambitions and dreams in life.

If both see beyond each other's mistakes and flaws, and look on the positivity of each other, this relationship is for keeps.  They need to appreciate and push each other to be the best person they can be. For this relationship to work, they must enjoy the shared moment and learn to adapt to each other's mishaps.

Jordan Canon
Spiritual Advisor
Free-Spiritual-Guidance.com

53 comments:

  1. This was a good message. -Virgo from Houston, TX

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  2. Ok,this explains alot....., 9 out 10 times i find myself attracted to virgos,long b4 i even know their sign.......what draws me to them? And why do they always break my heart?

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  3. They break your heart because they are perfectionists, who are hard on others, but never as hard as they are on themselves. The key to winning a Virgo's heart is to help them be kinder to themselves, and accept their own flaws. If you can do this, they will love your forever. It will melt them.
    I am a Virgo very happily married to an Aquarius!

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    1. Thanks for your comment. I needed to hear this. I was once married to a virgo and it didn't work. But now I am engaged to one whom I love deeply and we get along so well.

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    2. Ha! Same here. Engaged with an Aquarius male, Virgo woman myself

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    3. Been in love with a Aquarius male for years n a virgo woman myself also

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  4. I agree with iresonate and think support and love of a Virgo for being who they re, goes a long way! I am a bit of a perfectionist, but I don't think I've been too hard on others because of the open-mindedness. Definitely hard on myself though. I noticed I'm always attracted to Leo's. Something about their take charge and confidence that I admire.

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  5. This make sense. I'm a Virgo and my honey is an Aquarius. I find myself working on this relationship more than some others that I've been in.

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  6. I'm also a Virgo woman with an Aquarian man. I find myself always having to prove myself to him. I question our relationship alot. We have so many things in common, our weird sense of humour to our lifestyle but when we clash the silence is unbearable.

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    1. stop proving yourself to your man. he knows already that you are his woman and woman enough to have a life with him. ...kill the silence by asking if the other wants to drink, the other one has to answer and when you have made some drinks, invite the other, the other cant refuse and let both tell their story without interfering. afterwards, you end up ashamed that you both let it clash for maybe nothing..and you might end up both with a little smile....

      worked for me this way. now we have ONE clash a year..a big one but a good one..hahahaha

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  7. About a year ago I was really taken by this sweet girl from my neighbourhood. Me being the shy aquarian I never worked up the courage to speak to her, a few weeks later I saw the the same sweet face at an artshow, my courage was stronger as the environment was more relaxed. We chatted, shared drinks and laughs, and I was taken by how our life values were quite similar, we spoke about astrology exchaging star signs finding out she was a Virgo, which made my heart melt even more. The night was wrapping up as my shyness took over( AGAIN) we parted and that was the night. Seeing her once every few months in my neighbourhood passing by we never really spoke, just curious smiles and shy hellos. I have never felt like this for anyone or have had a crush for so so long, the curiousity was killing to the point I sent her a facebook message and vented, basically telling her i've crush a crush for almost a year, I apologise saying all this if you have a boyfriend bkah blah blah. No reply to the message, which I wasn't expecting, I even said said in the message. I bumped into her last friday (day before my birthday) she was on her break from work, she invited me to join her and we had a little chat and she told me it takes a lot of courage to say what I said in my message. Atrology came up in conversation because she asked me what I was doing for my birthday, "I said nothing, I don't celebrate my birthday" she replied with "me neither." :) Heart melted a little more, it all ended positively even though I was still a little socially awkward. She told me Aquarians are her rising sign, which really brought a smile to my face as I walked her back to work. We are catching up again, unless my head gets the better of me.

    Sorry for this long post, sometimes it is a lot easier to vent to strangers. I suppose we are on this page for the same reasons.

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  8. I am a virgo woman and I love my Aquarian.. we do kinda have a love-hate relationship, but we're always there for each other.. I get that a lot that virgo-aquarian doesn't really work. But we have been together for years and we complete each other. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me. <3

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  9. First time on this site and first time researching how our sign mesh... now I see I am not crazy. I am a Virgo woman and I have been dating an Aquarian man for about a year. He doesn't know this but I am definitely falling for him. I hold back so much of myself from him because we are COMPLETE OPPOSITES. So much I question about him (in my head). This relationship (or whatever this is) has no logic. Doesn't make sense to me. He's a doctor, I am a single mother. He's a loof, hippie, free spirited... everything I am not. I am structured, logical and a relationship stay at home kind of person.

    I guess what I need to know is... Do I need to let go? before I'm screwed and completely in love to the point of no return!! Or do I try to go with the flow and see where it goes?? Tell him how I feel?? No no no, I can't do that. Ugh

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    1. I'm sorry but we virgos always wondering what if when deep down we are realistic and we understand after years of anylizing theres no hope for us we aquarius yes it hurts but as soon as find someone else we trust it won't matter why it never could work... Just accept aquarious are free spirited and we are all about security and stability to to them that's bordness they want mistery and want love that even after years we can laugh about it find someone u compatible w and u will see how nice and easier that it. W aquarius everything u build he will destroy but don't be mad cus u been warned. It will be hard to let go on your part but to him he won't dwell on it cus it's all about fascination to him not about real life facts. And the best way to walk away is to walk away without a word! Good luck girl and know we earth always choose reliability over fun, and our love will be appreciated the way we need to when we find compatiblity !

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  10. I'm an Aquarian female. I just got out of a rough spot with a Virgo male. To the anonymous at 5:07am...I think you should definitely tell him how you feel. I wanted to tell my guy how I felt and it killed me inside when there was no talk of what we "were." If he is putting effort into your relationship then he definitely likes you. I wish my Virgo would have told me how he felt. After 4 months, I finally had enough courage to ask what we were. He of course, said he hadn't thought of it. He said logically it doesn't make sense to be in a relationship with me because he needs to focus on work. Our relationship died when I started pulling back and not having fun. While I have my shy times, if I can't speak my mind to someone I care about, it's over! Anxieties can turn to anger, even for the free-spirited. If Aquarians don't know how you feel, we're likely to run away; especially if we have lingering emotions from the past....which we always do!

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  11. Hi all im a virgo gal who's married to a aquarian guy for almost 5 now. Wow i was amazed on what read so informative and and im like seeing us on every comment. Im just sad that unlike before that i could tell him everything how i feel im now scared telling him that im bored with how things are right now. Its not like how it used to be as bf nd gf that we are spontaneous anything goes, im sad that im not able to say this to him cause im afraid im going the hurt his feeling don't get me wrong his a good guy devoted father to our little girl a good friend its just that its not easy telling someone that your bored its like everyday is just the same. I want to feel the rush excitement nd all that again..im not liking how i feel right now im so unfair to him guys i need some help here...its funny im sharing this with a sharing complete starngers lol. Btw thanks for a good read guys putting this on my fav!

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  12. I am an aqua male and i had a year long, very turbulent relationship with a virgo woman. She and i, when together, were perfect. When apart, or through text-she always seemed distant or became very mean. Right after we had our one year aniversary, she just stopped talking to me. We've had our arguments before (and we always made up soon after), but this was weird. Then she said she was too busy to see me and stopped talking to me altogether. I haven't seen her or really spoken to her for almost a month now and I am very heartbroken and hurt. I do love her and care a lot about her. Feels like I am wasting away without her near me and I dislike this feeling...

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    1. I'm a Aquarius male and distance is an issue with me too. My Virgo woman won't see me or talk to me, but still insists we are still friends and acts like we have nothing to talk about. I mistakenly pushed her over the edge once, but keeping me at bay from her thoughts is nothing new. My best advice is do whatever you can to keep reminding her how much you love her for the good and bad times.

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  13. There r so many positive things abt Aquarius man... they r sexy, very skilful with their hands if u realize (they make great chefs if they can cook), warm, bad boys even decent & kind hearted on 'e outside.

    Although Im aware we have different interest, all I do is back off cuz I dont wanna lose my personality & need to be true to myself... Erm, when I gain back my energy, I guess Virgo women out there would understand we can love men unconditionally towards men like mother to a child (that deep level)... so I do come back & we would do his activities with his loved ones or him alone...

    For as long as he is in my life, I need our freedom since many different interests & Im also ready to accept all sorts of adventures life has to promise be it good or bad with him... :)

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    1. Im a a virgo woman with aquarius moon. Freedom is a must with me! If u allow the freedom the aquarius men want and their independence then they will appreciate you more. Aquarius men only just need to let the virgo woman know how much they appreciate her etc. Even the little things. Things like that and the adventure would enable to have that special relationship alive!

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  14. What does it mean when your virgo girlfriend says to you as her aquarius boyfriend that she thinks about her ex's..... wtf :(

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    1. I wouldnt know dear but it could be that past can linger in her mind and if nothing can be done about then it will ruin the relationship big time. She might have been hurt before and does not wanna go through the same again. Thats all.

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    2. Be careful Virgos can love deeply, in fact anyone that enters our distant almost detached heart may just stay there forever but don't worry my Aquarian is the closest/only one that's healing me

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  15. Joey and Bridget ^^^^ smh

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  16. Virgos arent very LOYAL huh... lol... smh
    Joey and Bridget???? Or Bridget and WHOEVER she eants in the MOMENT!!!

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  17. Cant get away from your past when its in my face and in YOUR THOUGHTS AND HEAD!!! What a mf JOKE!!!

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  18. Mayb its something your doing good or bad that makes her feel that way try changing it and see what happens.

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  19. Beautiful and informative talks, am a Virgo guy, quiet preoccupied with work. My child mother is an aquarius and we have a not so good history. I found myself thinking about marrying her but i am a little bit afraid, i have hurt her big time in the past; but i feel like she is the one. What must i do plz advice.

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    1. I just met an Aquarius female on the street today, she was sittin at the store waiting for a guy to bring her some dope. As a virgo maie I said hey you know that's not good for you. She didn't seem to care. She was beautiful and I was uncontrollably into her, and she was uncontrollable. She walked right into mcdonalds restroom and shot it into her arm. I stood waiting. I got her number and we are texting right now and she has a boyfriend/fiancé/whatever who is in jail and she said he will kill me if he finds out. this girl is what I need though to succeed in my life.. once she stops using drugs that is.. She can help me achieve my goals. I know that by reading this. I can see in her that she has no fear of what I think. And my mind is a pretty crazy thing I can analyze shit.. like this "your brain is slow" And other crazy things that I've come to realize as a Virgo. And I care so much about what people think.. Those reading this for example. I hope they think I'm not fucked up beyond belief, although I am.

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  20. I'm an Aquarius woman I don't know why I'm so attracted to Virgo men especially when they're going through some issues I always feel like I can be the loyal friend they never had or help them resolve their problems I also know that they are not what I need in my life I hate drama or arguments I need peace and mutual understand otherwise I'll run away... someone help what is wrong with me???

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  21. So I'm friends with an Aquarius male and I am a Virgo female.. I known him for a while but just recently started hanging out with him more.. The first time we actually hung out for a couple hours it turned out that he had the urge to hold me and kiss me and he did.. Then after that time it seemed as if he was interested.. Then the third time we hung out we kissed again and it was more passionate.. Then just recently I was walking by in the street and he noticed me and called me over to sit with him.. Now in the middle of just talking his friend stopped by and asked wat we are and the Aquarius said friends with benefits.. But all we have done is kiss and touched each other. Wat does this mean? Is he jus keeping it to himself or is he flashing signals ?

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  23. I am Virgo male who broke up with my Aquarius love a couple of months ago after nearly 2 years of the best and worst times of our lives. I fell for her very quickly which i think is unusual for Virgo? I wanted to be her forever and i think she did too. But the problem is is that it is just such a bad match in love Virgo/Aquarius. I have read alot about it since we split up to understand why it didnt work out. Essentially Aquarius are just looking for a friend who supplies emotional support wheres Virgo gives everything and wants it in return which even if Aquarius loves you very much you will never really feel needed enough being a Virgo. We need utter devotion because this is what we give and Aquarius are so free spirited and freedom loving which is too much for us. We are too insecure. Aquarius are described as being hard to pin down and this is true. My girl had alot of friends alot of them guys and even though i trusted her i didnt trust them and this got in the way and i told her early on it would be this that was going to tear us apart. And it did. We started fighting from the beginning and it never stopped. Not until i left for the last time. When things start to break down Aquarius stops talking and goes somewhere else for their emotional support and this pisses Virgo off even more and he/she starts firing off the arrows of criticism. It then becomes a cycle. Everywhere it says that Virgo/Aquarius is a love/hate relationship and bring out the best and worst and it is sooo true. I would never date an Aquarius girl again just in case i fell in love again as i know now it would never work fully but i am sooo glad i did fall in love with her because as i said even though we hurt each other so much sometimes, it was still the best the rest of the time. It is a true love affair between Virgo/Aquarius but it is doomed from the offset! I have read what Virgo hates most is a highly independent partner, and unfortunately this is exactly what Aquarius is!! Aquarius are considered to be the hippy of the zodiac, quirky and freedom loving and it might be this that makes Virgo fall in love as it is so different for us and brings us out of our shells but ultimately it is this need for freedom from Aquarius that destroys the relationship. It is a shame as we loved each other very much but we were also the best of enemies! Worth doing once in a lifetime just for the passion and good times!!!! Making up is also the best :)

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    1. Amen we virgos are realistic so why not to just accept and don't let it happen. Even friendship is bs in the end so why waste time!

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    2. I can see what you are saying. I am Virgo male and agree to pretty much everything I just read.

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    3. This was right on. I'm an Aquairan woman who ended a friendship with a Virgo woman because I felt bogged down. I was relived!!!

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  24. Although aqua girlz r freedom lover but they can never be cheaters.....aqua girl z so loving nd honest to her partner...just she can't bear so much critisim frm her virgo male... virgo males r alwayz of bossy nature nd try to impose their ideaz their wishez upon aqua gir... they just want dat their aqua girl should follow their ech nd every word....they r fault finders.... nd if they get angry they alwayz humilate their aqua girl they r heart brokers....nd doesn't feel even for once dat they did something bad. They have a lot of flaws but will never accept them.

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  25. This was a good message I recently got involved wit a Aquarius male and he is as sweet as pie being a Virgo women I analyse everything and might critique some things he do. But he is perfect from his personality to sex. He is very romantic. He is very open with his feelings so that makes it easier for me to understand him more. I just got out of a relationship wit a Capricorn after 3 years. And Virgo and cap supposedly was the best on the charts but this Aquarius man is giving me life GOOD LUCK LADIES..

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    1. Please stop it before it's too late u anylizing will lead to critiszm. It's always good in the begging w anyone. W experience I'm only telling u this cus I was the same clueless girl wondering what if.... He will break your heart in the end and will run off like u never meant anything to him when he was just making love to u like 5 days ago telling u he loves u and ur ..... He will even pass u on the street like u were some stranger when to u when u look at him everything about him u believe belongs w u u were meant to be w him. U might think u are his when u w him but he will never be your. Escape the terrible heartbreak and find someone else like an earth sign. I wish somebody would've told me this instaid of me wondering maybe maybe for 2 yrs until he ran out and that's when I found out how wrong a virgo( ima)is for aqaurious

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  26. Im an aquarius women been with my virgo for 3 years we have a ton of diffrences. we agree to disagree but im in love and i just can't seem to let go. We arguw alot but at the end of the day we are stuck like glue. Now we are broken up he left home forn2 weeks now he wants back in and o have open arms but whats to say we will ever be good for one another

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    1. I am an Aquarius woman in love with a Virgo male. Every Aquarius female Virgo male comment I have seen describes what I have been through with my Virgo. I love this guy so much. I don't think he will ever understand. We have been in and out of the relationship for 5 years. I am ready to be married. I'm now debating whether or not to completely move on from him without looking back. Everytime I try he draws closer to me of course that's what I want and I fall back head over hells. He's my world. I'm just not sure if our relationship can withstand all the bad times. The sex and the good times are mind blowing, but we need more than that to stand. Good luck to all! Just had to vent myself...

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  27. Virgos we are too fault finding. The sooner we realize that there is no such thing as a perfect relationship the better. It doesn't matter who we are with. We will always find something wrong with the person we are dating. I think our biggest problem with an aquarius is they don't do what we want them to do ( I.e follow all the rules of relationships) and as a result we begin to not trust them. I understand that it is scary, but as long as they are not cheating or beating us then we should be able to look past their flaws. We have a tendency to think they are not reliable or they can't provide us with security when that is not necessarily true. Aquarius could be loyal if we gave them a chance. Leaving an aquarius to find someone else doesn't mean we will necessarily find better. The grass isn't always greener on the other side. Sometimes you could be in a relationship with someone that they say we are more compatible with like a Taurus and the relationship still doesn't work out. People who go from one relationship to another never achieve anything so don't mislead your self into believing that if you leave an aquarius your next relationship will be better. Most relationships start off in the honeymoon stages, but once that stages wears off there will be some things you won't like about your partner, but you have to work at it to build what you want . The virgo/aquarius relationship isn't easy, but every relationship needs work. Aquarius people aren't just people we can have fun with Virgos. They are people who are looking for love and who want to build something with someone too. Many of them are old fashion and want to have a wife or a husband and children too. Anyway I guess it depends on what your dreams include. Best of luck to everyone

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    1. Unique,
      Thank you for this un-bias and thought provoking response.

      As often as people like to believe, Astrology can not answer everyone's problems. Between life experiences, and personal growth; we develope new skill sets as individuals.

      While I would say that the basis of Astrology sounds correct, especially for this Aquarian Male; it's not 100%. It's only a foundation, and like all things - requires a grain of salt.

      I've read a lot of replies from above, and truth betold, not all are logical. If the Virgo readers claim to be logical, then I'd agree with the statement above - stop bouncing/rebounding relationships.

      Relationships require a sense of understanding, learning, and self-growth. There is no one 'cookie-cutter' design.

      Also; if we contemplate the idea that there are only twelve signs, then there would only be twelve personalities to match up to the 7+ Billion people on the planet. There has to be variances within Astrology (i.e.: other parts of people's charts that make them up!)

      - Cheers, bmw

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  28. I love my Aquarius but we both mean sometimes to one another and sensitive and romantic at the same time

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  29. My experience das with venus. I am venus in virgo, he is venus in aquarius. It's the same. I don't believe he will come back. Insensitive, cold, detached, lot of Friends , closed-off, emotionally coward, inflexible everything has to be jus way ,lack of empathy. Today I believe it was good he has disappeared from my life. I need respect and someone who is consistent.

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  30. I was married to a Virgo male for 12 years and have two beautiful children. At first we were both in heaven and had googly eyes for each other. The sex was awesome for the whole 12 years. At this point it seems that that was the only thing we had in common. But along the way I had a dramatic life. Some things are on me as a dramatic Aquarius and some things that were out of my control like burying two parents before the age of 30. My Virgo became distant and would never tell me how he truly felt. He never asked me how could he help or if there was anything he could do. It seems like the more I needed him the more he pulled away. If anything all I got was a Blank Stare. After seeing that he would never compromise I suggested that we divorce. This was actually the only thing we compromised on. He said "you've said the same thing for years" and I replied saying "you never listened to me or heard my needs for years"...smh. It really shouldn't have been that hard because I'm easy and don't need much but he felt like I was the only one who needed to change. Maybe he just needed to compromise. He never saw any of his faults and still to this day he refuses to admit any fault. He moved on 4 Weeks Later and expected me and the kids to understand. Now he is just cold and callous and treats me like I'm some b**** on the street. Ironically our old neighbor who is a virgo is interested in me and feels like he can do better. Should I even entertain this or feed him on a long-handled spoon? I don't know, I guess I'm a glut for pain because truly we are either the best or the worst for each other in a relationship. But considering everyone is different, I am not going to let my ex virgo put a bad taste in my mouth and ruin my love life as if I'm not good enough. I really felt that we could have made it work but clearly we were on two different pages. How about we weren't even in the same book. I'm optimistic that it could work if you guys have the same goals and outlook on life.

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  31. to all virgo stay away from any aquarius love relationship they wer all totally bulshiting you, u will realize u just waste ur time you spend to them wish they never been born and all dead

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  32. I'm an Aquarius female and was cool with a Virgo female working towards establishing a friendship. She grew attached very quickly while it takes me years to trust and open up fully. I never give everything away all at once. She wanted more than I was willing to give at the time. I found her to be loving towards her family but very critical, gossipy and arrogant/insecure/needy. We could have been great but there were differences and humps we just couldn't get over because I couldn't trust her. TRUST and FREEDOM are huge for Aquarius. We don't like to feel smothered and if actions come across as malicious then that's our clue to be gone. Although we both lived for fun, laughter, and adventure my aloofness and distance killed the confidence in our relationship. She couldn't stand being ignored but as an Aquarius if you show you are arrogant, loud, and demanding we REBEL. I don't regret my decision to stray away because we were clearly not meant to be. I wished her well and moved on in peace.

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  33. this is a very nice post indeed, and yes it explains every single thing. i once had an aquarian boyfriend and like you said, this sign always draws themselves back whenever they have problems and thats why we didnt work out. on the other hand i have a super close male friend and hes also aquarian. we are more like partners and we can always support each other, help each other stand back up whenever fall. i think virgo-aquarius work best as friend rather than couples. Nina-virgo, indonesia ♡

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  34. I'm a virgo female. I really like this aqua guy but it just doesn't seem right you know? He's actually 3-4 years older than me and he is very kind, outgoing, He's best friends with my sisters fiancé. The thing is he speaks to everyone but me! He is so attractive and it kills me because i know i shouldn't but ooh i so do!!! Sigh hopefully i move on and find me a good cancer or taurus.

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  35. Aquarius and Virgo relationships?
    It's so painful that you prayed you would never ever fall in love again,
    and yet you would rather take mountains of pain to not be in love..
    surprisingly with Aqua or Virgo AGAIN!
    Just like moths to flames, tempted by something that would lead to their downfall.
    Virgo craves Aqua’s attention and devotion, but he’s not man enough to love her back. Aqua is happy enough without man, but Virgo determines to show her that’s not true. So the drama begins.. It started as a friendship growing romantic until, Virgo teaches Aqua to love all man but not him. Heartbroken Aqua wanted to disconnect from him but Virgo insisted he don’t want to lose her, but yet he wanted her to move on and don’t wait for him. I am Aqua girl, and this is my story. I’ve blocked all contacts from this Virgo for a year now and hopefully forever. But I’m just like the humble moth… que sera sera

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